WAKE UP XH - Users leaving your site in droves

I don't make it a daily habit to look over my friends list and the other related stats. I never joined his party to become a friend warehouse but I do find it interesting found my content interesting. Now that XH has made some mysterious overnight purging, censoring, and gagging process I did a little analysis and here is what I found.

From the lists that XH gives me dated January 5, 2021:

Friends 25 out of 500 left XH permanently overnight (I checked in last night)
My Subscriptions 10 out of 767 permanently left in the last week
My Subscribers 333 our of 1427 permanently left in the last week

Now there is some overlap. Many times I would subscribe to a user and later became friends but in my review this morning there were only 3 that were in both lists. The real number is in My Subscribers. This list shows those that must have found some content of mine they liked and instead of becoming friends selected to subscribe. As I said, I do look at the numbers but don't dwell on them. But if this is happening to my little no nothing profile what is happening across this site? If this keeps up someone needs to shut off the lights as they become the last to leave.