A mutual understanding

BDSM, Mistress, master, bondage, etc. All extreme forms of pleasure and satisfaction, but it's just not my thing. I have tried on countless attempts to give being a slave a try, but every time it's all or nothing. No one seems to meet half way, so I'm not interested. The reason I don't want to commit all the way may stem from me believing in mutual satisfaction where both parties try to match what the other provides, or try a little hard to make it more enjoyable for the other where it gets better and better.



It's easy to see where a lot of females have chosen the all or nothing approach of being a mistress. Guys become stubborn idiots when they seek sexual pleasure, and disregard feelings and judgment for the sake of jerking off. This isn't entirely true for all guys, but sadly for most it is. The tension created a rift. Homosexuality is by no means at fault for any of this issue, simply a power struggle that has bother me for some time.



I try to make what ever experience I have with someone else equally if not more enjoyable. Though I'm very vanilla with enjoying foreplay to the extent of getting a girl off before getting in her. It's sort of what I like, and there isn't much that will change that foundation of my interest. I like to please, and in tern I get pleased as well. Like a good game of tennis, it goes back and forth, but unlike tennis, at the end both people win.



So for me, I don't want to simply submit myself to someone. I don't mind if someone else is submissive towards me, but I will probably end up treating them fairly because thats who I am. At heart I am gentle, and I can care, but I can also make it a good time. I'm still only human at the end, but at least I can emit if I'm wrong.



So to those who have added me on here, feel free to message me any time you like if to just talk or have fun.