Why I dislike most porn -3

I have seen a lot of it - Some is quite good - See here my more than ten thousand favourite videos!
I have seen also many videos without acting or directors, why are they always better than pro-porn?

I am amazed as pleased by extreme success of the first episode with over fifteen thousands readers!
I especially like the serious and lengthy feedback in some of the comments which invoke my interest

I am keeping half an eye on the second installment, very well read so far in first few hours up
I am still wondering why so many showed their 'likes' of first and only one friend for part two

I will list below more categories where well intended 'amateur'-shoots are almost always a failure
I will list alternatives and explain why those takes can not possibly fail in any way whatsoever!


I rarely look anymore at videos called "(See) My Girlfriend" and I will tell you why I stopped

I know that in 99% of cases the 'girlfriend' is anybody's girlfriend: a cute cam-girl being taped
I pity those lonely guys who maybe still never ever had a real girlfriend to love and make love to

I pity even more those poor morally wrestling minds of those who would refer to her as 'cam-whore'
I know as well that they undress and act solo-sex on camera mainly for money (only beginners come)

If these frusto's are consequent they will call all girls which appear in favourite video 'whores'
I wonder if these are the same guys who actually visit women for sex for money or don't they dare?


I advise you to become a gentleman as I am, no money needed, only a bit wit and proper manners

I tell the alternative: get a real girlfriend for free: it only costs you some love and dedication
I advise you not to tape her, as in a bad mood, after she broke up, all lands here in the internet

I know this is the original category of "My Girlfriend" - she trusted him when he wanted to tape her
I bet you can tell the rest: she broke up, and he wanted 'revenge' so he put her up as 'another slut'

I sometimes serously wonder if not over nine in ten of men here have some serious mental problems?
I know everyone can get every now and then exteremely frustrated sexually in failed relationships

I close this little chapter with my advise: tape your love life on camera if it turns you on so much
If you really love her let her keep the tape just in case your love will end some day, you know why!

If you wonder whether it is worth to become a gentleman, see my list of girlfriends - all are younger
I had hundreds more before, but I only keep those in who write with me, as I'm not collecting 'stamps'


I am old enough to know as a man what most women will know so very well: leave a lil' sexy secret

I started here almost five years ago from an old slow desktop computer which a richer friend dumped
I longed to look at tasty teens in sexy solos or lovely looking lesbians getting and coming together

I loved and love to look at photos of pretty pussies, slender sensual yummy young beautiful bodies!
I mostly read stories though those first two years (just as 'pussies' do) because of boring waiting

I clicked through great galleries, yawn ... every photo took (half) a minute to show up at my screen
I tried to watch lowest resolution old videos ... which showed me about only three stills per minute

I soon discovered that only stories show up fast at my screen and all my messages went even faster!
I soon discovered a few favourite female authors, started to comment their stories and message them

In reading stories, one minds' eye fills in details which you like to 'see' - your imagination works
In an effective story serving your fancies and fantasies you discover new possibilities for pleasure


I dislike most porn because almost always something is wrong with it: you name it, I know you know


In a movie everything is there: you look at a few stills before you start one in your favourite fancy
It almost always disappoints in some aspects: you dislike her voice or use of language (see parts 1&2)

I can make a long list of it and you will probably know even more reasons to dislike some videos
I can dislike a musical score, an incompetent camera operator (nine out of ten, including pro's)

I know well many men never noticed it conciously, if the video is really bad they down vote it
I know well most men watch in order to get turned on enough to jack off, focussing on fancies

I know that the original idea behind including come-shots is making male watchers want to come!
I know (am I the only one?) how short-sighted that is: after coming they are too tired for more

I have watched some of the best shoots over a dozen times, curious for the tiniest details of her
I have had dozens of favourite females, I recognise them in an instant - I do not know their names

I advise all however to cultivate the old habit of reading, especially stories which make you wonder
I can tell in the next issue how my first ever female friend here seduced me into becoming a writer!


I warmly welcome your comments and suggest the next subject in my series of serious essays

I close this issue with reveiling one of my first toughts - which comes back too often unfortunately:
If I would be the director (cameramen we do not need, see part 1&2) porn could be so gorguously great

I will wait for comments from my dear readers to see if I will need to share more of my knowledge here
I warmly welcome your 'thumbs up' of course, but I mostly long for comments - as every serious writer

I list this story in the category 'Voyeur' as watching porn is all about being a voyeur, isn't it?
Isn't that an interesting subject for my next essay: intellectual arguments and private experiences?

I will wait for Your responses: in a public comment here or at my wall - or in a private message to me
I am curious what you long for most: my seduction to become an author - or the theme of being voyeurs?