Tease & Denial Edging vs Surfing
"Edging to me is very wide spread in goals and styles.
Overall edging is bating inside your PONR window. I consider is 9 and above on a 10 point scale of arousal. Then once in the zone of edging its broken down into a 10 point scale again for advanced gooners.
Stop and go. I call this pulsing. Work into your PONR window. When u get too close, back off to comfortable level and do it again. Over and over. Hopefully u r pushing closer and closer to your PONR each time. A true gooner knows many levels once inside an edge. Pulsing is great as a warm up. U work in and out of varying degrees of arousal as well as different stages of erection. This is another thing important to know to become a true gooner. There are atleast 5 stages of boner. More on that later. ;)
Then comes surfing. Once u get comfortable with pulsing u take it to the next level. Remember. Don't rush into a surf. This is the technique used to go real deep into the bate hole and u don't want to rush it. If properly eased into the bate hole u will not only be soo drunk on cock and lost in the bate, but if u can realize a bate hole and take ownership u can do some crazy things and hit a super low state. Anyway, back to surfing.
Surfing is the technique of moving yourself into your PONR window and rather than backing off like a pulse, u maintain that heightened state for a sustained period of time. (Surfing the wave of pre-orgasm). When u are starting (using the ten point scale) stay at a low level edge where u are still in edge but can gain comfort. Training at this should be increasing the amount of time able to stay at surf. "
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Edging_(sexual_practice)